" ni TER ke memang nak"
sumhow i do expect mmg akan ada org tanye soalan ni...and i did a few timeS try
to kind of draft out my possible answers for this question...
these are my answer scheme for the question
"u ada nampak air mata ke kat mata i ni...ada nampak i murung ke bila tau i pregnant lagi" {bunyi mcm cynical rite}
"oh tak plan pun mmg nak tambah baby cepat"
"saya mmg tak suka makan ubat ni so kalau ada baby saya ok jer"
itu cuma skema jawapan...bila dalam kejadian sebenar aku jawab merepek2 hingga aku sendiri tak puas hati dgn jawapan aku.
in d 1st place soalan tu memang tak patut di tanye pada sesiapa pun...
so memang logik la bila aku jawap merapu-rapu biarpun aku mmg dah ada skema jawapan...
frankly speaking aku mencongak2 umur...aku lahirkan aisyah masa umur aku 27 tahun
dah agak lewat usia 20an...dan memang ada dalam hasrat aku nak tambah lagi memandangkan umur dah semakin banyak...kalau dah tua2 nanti condition badan dah tak berapa baik untuk pregnant...I WANT A HUGE HAPPY FAMILY
SO...the baby in me is wanted bukan TER...aku tak suka betul dengar perkataan TER tu...
to me people can decide whatever they want to do with their life...as for me i decide to have more babies...may b sebab zaman sekarang ni ramai org prefer utk jarakkan anak 2 tahun ...3 tahun then baru dapatkan baby yaNg seterusnye...people decide what they suppose to decide...
some people make that call because the husband and wife tak stay skali PJJ may be...some people concern about financial...some people nak manjakan anak lama skit...some people wait because of medical condition...and there are so many reasonS for people to make d decision whether to have or not to have a baby ....whatever d reasons are itu terpulang pada individu tu la...
cuma yang tak best nye dalam kes anak masih kecik and mak pulak mengandung lagi soalan yang TER tu mesti muncul membuat penampilan istimewa...
kalau ada yang teringin nak tanye soalan tu pada aku lagi sila la fikir jauh skit...
and PALING PENTING ingat ALLAH...rezeki dari allah kenapa nak tolak??? kesian kat baby tu kalau mak yang terfikir tentang isu TER ni...
to me tak ada isu TER ni...
From d moment aku tengok aisyah for d first time i just knew that it is worth d pain that i've gone thru...and i've no doubt to go thru it again just to see another sweet beautiful little baby...
